MILFs, Boobies, etc.

My heart got broken last week when Ella decided that she’s done with breastfeeding. Just like that! Done! My emotions are so jumbled up about it – sometimes I want to burst into tears because a very special stage in her development is over. Other times, I want to run down the street, screaming for joy with a sign that reads MAMA GOT HER BOOBIES BACK! I don’t know. It’s complicated. Complicated for me, not for Ella, she carries on like she couldn’t be happier. *bursts into tears*


Remember when I talked about looking for a MILF? Well. Good news people. My enthusiasm (read: desperation) has finally paid off. I’ve been invited to join a mommy group (!) and Ella has been invited to not one but THREE birthday bashes this month. We’re getting popular y’all.


7 Comments on MILFs, Boobies, etc.

  1. ek13
    October 18, 2011 at 6:14 am (6 years ago)

    Hello MILF…..just had to, tiihihihi.

    This is one thing I never enjoyed, so was somewhat glad when DS shifted to formula at around 3mths. The only thing I missed was the closeness of him hugging to me for dear life as he was BFing. So I feel you on the emotional change. Our babies do things when you least expect it. DS in a space of a week, moved from crawling to just standing up and walking whilst holding on. Whereas, it took him better part of a month or so to transition from rolling to crawling.

    Soon, you will be the one inviting people to Ella’s first. Have you started planning? Tip: make it all about her/children. As parents we tend to forget that.

    • greencalabash
      October 30, 2011 at 9:32 pm (6 years ago)

      Man. This first b-day had us SO confused. In the end, we opted for a small, family only shindig.

  2. Enelesi
    October 18, 2011 at 10:37 am (6 years ago)

    Once again I envy you. You are lucky you didnt have to go through making her stop. But was the transition that easy for you physically? I hear it can be just as painful as starting to breastfeed.

    • greencalabash
      October 30, 2011 at 9:31 pm (6 years ago)

      It was almost too easy :(. At around 9 mths we scaled back to BFing only twice a day, maybe that’s why it was a barely noticeable transition physically. Emotionally though….

  3. izjules
    October 30, 2011 at 1:28 am (6 years ago)

    OMG Ella doesn’t want boobies anymore? Already? She done grown so fast! Congrats on the invite to the mommy’s group! and yay to the 3 bday invites! xo

  4. Shiro
    November 1, 2011 at 3:39 pm (6 years ago)

    Congrats Shiko on the exit from boobieland and finding a MILF! Miss you girl!


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