Archive of ‘Relationships’ category

heartbreak hotel

5 Ways Our Baby Could Ruin Our Relationship

FACT: when you have a baby with someone, your relationship changes FOREVER. One of my strongest convictions is that the introduction of kids into a relationship really shows what that relationship is made of. Sometimes, relationships struggle when a baby comes along and then adapt and become stronger than ever. Sometimes, relationships suffer irreversible damage […] Read more…

13082692243_aa889ddc1f_n

Kiss It Better

As I said before, sex is LIT when you’re in your thirties. It’s like your mind and body just…open up (HA). Now just imagine being 30+ and having a pregnancy-induced increase in blood flow to your vagina and labia, resulting in ultra-sensitivity and heightened arousal at the slightest touch. HELLO CUNNILINGUS! Let me tell you, […] Read more…

wp-1455695448749.jpg

The New Official Valentine’s Day Tradition

I am happy to report that (despite my fears) Valentine’s Day was a success! There was no awkwardness or disappointment. And even more importantly, I figured out what our New Official Valentine’s Day Tradition is! (Granted, none of this has been discussed with Mr. Big, but I have decided that I like how the weekend […] Read more…

Clueless Valentine’s Day

Valentine’s Day is here and I find myself to be in a state of distress. Why? Because I hate this stage of my relationship. The stage where you don’t have any established traditions for special occasions. The stage where you’re not even sure if you celebrate, let alone give gifts on certain occasions. The stage […] Read more…

3254871687_51fa41b839

What’s Your Love Language?

Several years ago I read a bestselling book called The 5 Love Languages that dramatically changed my view on relationships. In the book, author Gary Chapman posits that human beings express (show) and experience (feel) love in 5 main ways: gifts, quality time, words of affirmation, acts of service and physical touch. So, while some […] Read more…